why when i am placing pendant lights is it not automatically hosting it to the cieling?
It depends on the light you are using and the properties. You will need to attach the light by uploading it to Google drive.
upload it to google drive and then do what?
Attach the Google drive link here so I can have a look at it
When you load it into your project select place on face in the ribbon and select the bottom of the ceiling - placing it in 3d view.
thank you